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Mary's Story
I just joined and I wanted to thank all of you for
sharing your stories. My mom died 11 years ago. I was
18 and it was the summer after my first year in
college. I'm 29 now, about to turn 30 in October. My
brother lives across the country in California, all my
grandparents are deceased, and my dad and I are not
close, so I often feel alone.
I have a son who was born in November. He is the light
of my life. I have been going through a difficult
time, though, without having my mother here. It's
always been hard, but it seems to only get harder.
Going through pregnancy and childbirth, there were so
many times I just wanted her to hold me, to stroke my
hair and tell me everything was going to be okay.
Sometimes I'll stand him up on my dresser so he can
look in the mirror. I have several framed pictures of
her on the dresser. Once in a while he'll glance at
them, and you can see him studying the woman in the
pictures. And I say, "That's Grandma." The hardest
thing is knowing that he will never know her -- that
she'll be one of those people he hears stories about,
one of those people who have been dead and gone
forever, when in my mind she is so very much alive.
Only other motherless daughters understand that it
doesn't get any easier. You just keep living,
experiencing different times in your life when you
miss her. The grief gets comfortable, it gets
familiar, but it never really goes away.
I thank God for this site. I am glad there are people
out there who understand what I'm talking about.
Please feel free to email me if you want to talk
directly. Thanks again to you all.
© Mary
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